You Must Put Thought Into These Questions!
So important to make the right first impression.
You are NOT the only __________ . Your questions say a lot about you.
Calm? Confident? Healthy-minded? Paranoid / Biased / Closed-minded / Not compatible
WHY IS THIS SO IMPORTANT?
FOUR RULES TO FOLLOW WHEN ASKING FOREIGN WOMEN. . .
- Open-ended and inviting.
- Compliment, then ask.
- Be direct – but not too deep at first.
Avoid sensitive buttons: past relationships / religion / politics / negative cultural references.
KNOW WHAT TOPICS ARE TABOO IN HER NATIVE CULTURE. . .
- Know the taboo topics – and don't take it there.
- Thai women are largely Buddhist
- Chinese women are commonly atheist.
- Colombia, Peru and Philippines are a bit more conservative than Ukraine and Russia.
- Ukraine and Russia – very modest and private in front of strangers.
- Relationship questions especially sensitive
- Financial stability or needs
- Assume women have negative impressions about their men.
THE BEST QUESTIONS TO ASK FOREIGN WOMEN
- Tell me your dreams?
- What does being in love look like to you?
- Tell me about a romantic movie or song you like – and why you like it?
- Tell me about your parents? Or grandparents? What is their love story – how did they fall in love?
- Tell me something you have always wanted to do? Or a place you'd like to go.
- Tell me about your son / daughter?
- What cuisines do you like – or would like to try?
- What activities have you wanted to try for the first time?
- What activities do you like – and when was the last time you did them?
- Is there some place in America you've always wanted to visit?
- What are your thoughts on living abroad?
- What kind of availability do you have this week?
- Tell me about your work?
THE WORST QUESTIONS TO ASK FOREIGN WOMEN
- Why did your last relationship end? Why did you get divorced? And the relationship before that?
- How do you feel about the current political situation?
- Why are you all so poor? (negative cultural)
- Why are all the men so terrible?
- Is it true local men are so terrible?
- Why don't you speak more English?
- Sex Related Topics
AT ALL TIMES - YOU MUST REMEMBER. . .
- Be calm
- Be a gentleman
- Be polite
- Sense of humor
- Be positive and fun
- Show interest and appreciation
- Compliment often