Archive for February, 2009

Culture Lesson Number Two

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009

Guys,

 It is very important that we not take for granted our obligation to at least learn something about the world of the women we hope to pursue in the foreign bride search – again, this pays great dividends later on when we meet someone we want to impress.  Ugly Americans, who believe the world revolves around them and nothing else is of interest or importance – are not attractive.  Gracious Americans who humbly appreciate the vast opportunities to hear international music, read international writings and observe international art, culture and people – are attractive.  That’s us, right?  Hopefully you enjoyed hearing the music and seeing the videos below – here is another dose of cool Russian/Ukrainian stuff you might find interesting.  Familiarize yourself with these as much as possible – it will help you to make great conversation with a gorgeous foreign girl later on.  This is some great stuff for the Rusophile in all of us:

Russian Writers:

Boris Pasternak: 1890 – 1960.  Wrote Dr. Zhivago, which won the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1958.  Read more about his life and works here: 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boris_Pasternak

http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/364

Pasternak wrote hopeful, wistful poetry.  Here’s a great sample…

Winter Night

It swept, it swept on all the earth,
At every turning,
A  candle on the table flared,
A  candle, burning.

Like swarms of midges to a flame
In summer weather,
Snowflakes flew up towards the pane
In flocks together.

Snow  moulded arrows, rings and stars
The pane adorning.
A candle on the table shone
A candle, burning.

Entangled shadows spread across
The flickering ceiling,
Entangled arms, entangled legs,
And  doom, and feeling.

And  with a thud against the floor
Two  shoes came falling,
And  drops of molten candle wax
Like tears were rolling.

And  all was lost in snowy mist,
Grey-white and blurring.
A candle on the table stood,
A candle, burning.

The flame was trembling in the draught;
Heat of temptation,
It lifted up two crossing wings
As of an angel.

All February the snow-storm swept,
Each time returning.
A candle on the table wept,
A candle, burning.

1946
Translated by Lydia Pasternak Slater
 

Alexander Pushkin: 1799 – 1837.  Great poet (really he was THE Russian poet) whose works insipred Glinka’s “Ruslan and Lyudmilla,” Tchaikovsky’s “Eugene Onegin” and Mussorgsky’s “Boris Gudanov”. (Operas.)  Pushkin was Russia’s beloved, famous poet -and Russian children today still learn his works in grade school.  He lived a rather extravagant life of women, gambling and bad habits and died from wounds suffered in a duel with a man believed at the time to be having an affair with his wife.  Read more about Pushkin here:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Pushkin

http://alexanderpushkin.com/

I Loved You Once

I loved you once, and still, perhaps, love’s yearning
Within my soul has not quite burned away.
But may it nevermore you be concerning;
I would not wish you sad in any way.
My love for you was wordless, hopeless cruelly,
Drowned now in shyness, now in jealousy,
And I loved you so tenderly, so truly,
As God grant by another you may be.
Anton Chekov: 1860 – 1904. Considered to be a one of world literature’s best short story writers, was also a playwright and physician.  Chekov influenced many writers of his time.  My two favorite Chekov pieces are the short story “Lady With a Lapdog” and the short play called “Swansong.” 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anton_Chekov

Here is a great, short YouTube documentary about Chekov.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CY6ltI1n5Lo

Mikhail Bulgakov:  1891 – 1940.  Wrote the amazing “Master and Margarita,” a novel satirizing Communism and the paranoia, secrecy and censorship of Soviet Russia.  This is a remarkable book which has been made into at least two movies filled with haunting, impressive imagery.  Everyone in Russia has read this book.  See the clip below – then watch the rest of the movie.  It begins with a conversation between Margarita and Satan.  (What?)  This movie has an amazing soundtrack btw…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CbHPBsU18CA

Anna Politkovskaya: 1958 – 2006.  A journalist who chronicled Russian atrocities in the war against Chechnya.  A fierce critic of Vladimir Putin and various Russian military leaders, Politkovskaya endured torture, death threats and substantial harassment for most of her professional career.  She was murdered in her apartment building on Putin’s 48th birthday. Her death received an international outcry and more than 1000 colleagues and admirers attended her funeral on October 10, 2006 in Moscow.  See…

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anna_Politkovskaya

 I would highly recommend reading her book, “Putin’s Russia” in which she laments the treatment of innocents in the Chechnyan war, the forced labor of military conscripts (draftees) and the murder of a Chechnyan girl at the hands of a Russian Colonel named Budanov.  It’s worth a note – both a Russian journalist and a young photographer were murdered this month in Moscow at a rally to prevent Colonel Budanov from early release from prison.  Also, as you may have read – 3 men accused of having a part in Politkovskaya’s murder were acquitted by a jury this week.

Most Russian people feel very strong support for Putin, whose presidency resulted in a much higher standard of living for many Russians, and restored national pride to its highest level in decades.  So I am not sure Politkovskaya’s life and death would make good dinner conversation – but a learned man in this process would nonetheless at least be familiar with her writings.

These are all but a drop in the bucket of great Russian literary figures – and that is even an understatement – but again, the goal here is to help you get basically familiar with a few past and present influences on Russian/Ukrainian culture.  Hope this is interesting for you, boys.  I promise that for you to commit some of these to memory will make an excellent impression on any ladies you’ll ultimately meet when you finally get on the plane and go.

 

Time For A Culture Lesson

Monday, February 9th, 2009

Wow – has it really been three weeks since my last blog?!  Sorry, guys.  We did the Open House in January, plus I just started my new job – and it’s been a little hectic – but here we go.  I have a new theme which should provide lots of good stuff for a few weeks.

It occured to me recently that most of us guys are making plans to head to Russia or Ukraine with no real exposure to Russian culture – after all, where would we go in the USA to find real Russian, Ukrainian anything – unless you’re lucky enough to know a good international market, restaurant or Eastern Orthodox church.  (As my good friends Kevin and John did in their Cincinnati suburb.)  When you guys touch down half way around the world you will be instantly overexposed to lots of great food, music, art, architecture and yes – women! Some of the world’s most beautiful ladies will be walking around on every street.  As you meet them at romance tour socials, or individually arranged dates, you will want to show your respect and true interest in their lives by familiarizing yourself with the kinds of things they experience on a daily basis.  Nothing will unimpress these ladies on a first date so much as a one way conversation that’s all about you.  So I’m going to use these next few blogs to present some interesting pieces of Russian/Ukrainian life and culture.  I’ll try to make this as interesting as possible for you, ok?  The idea is when your girl eventually asks you if you know any Russian/Ukrainian music, art, books, history etc – you can perk right up with a mighty “YES!” and show your true appreciation for HER.  Women of the FSU believe that men who go to Russia/Ukraine have a higher than typical interest in their world – they find this quality attractive and you wouldn’t want to disappoint them – right?  So sit back and enjoy some cool stuff – courtesy of a little YouTube action – and more.

Today I am posting a few music video links from some of Russia / Ukraine’s most popular musical acts.  You obviously won’t know the words – though some are in English – but you will get at least some exposure to the music your girl listens to.  I find this stuff very addicting – so watch out.  Most of these are Russian MTV videos – yes that’s right – they have MTV in Russia too and get this – they actually show music videos.  Yea, I know – ain’t that a kick in the pants. Here’s another possible value to knowing these songs and artists – you’ll no doubt experience some of this music at the socials, so you can guage each songs danceability for future reference!

I will warn you now – some of these are a little risque – these are European women after all.  Of course each video gives you the chance to scroll through some others so – Enjoy!

 

ARTIST: Valerya

SONGS: Break It All, Chasiki (Live), Flowers

Valerya is a very popular singer in Russia and has spoken out publically at the UN against human trafficking that occurs in the FSU.  She was married for 10 years to a very abusive spouse but rose above to an amazing plave in Russian culture.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dsG6NVmqNI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgOhnrPgL2Y 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKFbNrbEXG0 

ARTIST: Leonid Augutin (and Vladimir Presnyakov on Airports)

SONGS: Airports, If I Get The Chance

Way cool dude – great voice.  There’s a story behind the “Aiports” song related somehow to the whole world terrorism theme.  ”If I Get The Chance” is just a very lovely song. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMcMPZwkGkc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5X3pPpy1dE 

ARTIST: VIAGRA

SONGS: Potselui (I Kiss You,) and “It’s Raining Men” with Geri Halliwell, former Spice Girl

Yes, there is a Russian female group called VIAGRA.  (Can’t imagine how they chose the name.)Excellent chance you’ll be dancing to ”It’s Raining Men” at the socials!  FSU girls seem to really like it!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MtXNmA8rU24

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1KgA2vznhc

ARTIST: REFLEX

SONG: Lyublyu

If I am not mistaken, one of these girls is over 40.  Unbelievable… again, this is a little spicey so please skip it if your views are conservative.  Reflex is one of Russia’s top female acts.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rhkmCh_NPk

ARTIST: NON-STOP

Song: Ya Na Vsye Soglasnya (I Will Do Whatever You Want)

Well, not much I could add to that…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56l3czQ25eU

 

ARTIST:  Masha Rasputina

SONG:  Mosti 

Masha has been around for years as a mainstay in Russian pop music.  This woman has an amazing voice! 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxQ0rqGJpx8

 

ARTIST: Fillip Kirkorov

SONGS:  Roza Chainaya, Newer version of Roza Chanaiya Duet With Masha Rasputina

Fillip is also a true icon in Russian music.  I love his voice…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pk23MQfi5MI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YBt_RdD2Tfk

ARTIST: Yulia Savicheva

SONGS: Forgive For Love, (Vsyoko) So High

This girl began her career very young and has an incredible voice for her age – very powerful.  Somehow she finds alot of songs with very poetic lyrics.  The first song, Forgive for Love says ” Listen, you were right.  Listen to me now, it’s not painful.  My heart without you beats more softly.  Listen, to what is left, listen to what was before and the silence will tell you that I loved you.”

The next song shows you the lyrics in English.  Good stuff…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTWNH7UHhzQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxBltR6Jt0Q

Well, there you are – as I mentioned above if you tap into these you’ll see some great videos on the sides to scroll through.  I hope you take the time to familiarize yourself with these artists, this music and more.  Believe me, it will serve you well later on.  This is just the tip of the iceberg – there’s much more to come in upcoming blogs.  Turn down the lights, grab a glass of wine, imagine as you listen your lovely Russian/Ukrainian girl and you dancing a slow dance…