foreignbride101.com Blog

     Woa, boys – I’ve been busy.  Thanks to all the guys who have voiced or written your support of this web-site and forum since I decided to revamp it recently.  Bill, Fred, John, Terry, Jay, Ray – and all the great guys from Monday nights – this whole effort is to help you find the shortest possible path to the one special foreign lady who awaits you.  If you have purchased my book or listened to our Monday night telephone discussions around the topic – you know I like to peel away the layers of fantasy marketing that so many internatonal marriage agencies are guilty of and help you realistically plan your search for HER.  My book, the Monday night forum, this blog are all here to help you make the dream of true love with an exciting girl a reality you can live and be proud of every day.

       I quoted in my book that “You are never given a dream without the power to make it come true.” To harness that power in this case, you need reliable, candid, honest information about foreign women, correspondence, international marriage agencies, romance tours and other travel options for meeting that one special person who will complete who you are and change your life forever.  I have seen ALOT in my brief 6 years since I first began helping American men and foreign women find each other. There is a right way and definitely a wrong way to go about this and we can learn from the failures as much as the successes – so let’s just sit down, pour an adult beverage or cup of coffee and talk. Honestly. Man to man, if you will.  Thousands of lovely, exciting, serious, romantic, marriage-minded, family-oriented women would love to meet a gentleman like you – I will show you how.

     So… without further adieu… here come the holidays.  Can you believe 2007 is almost over?  I am nowhere near the goals I set for myself and my family at this time last year.  Viktoria and I experienced some interesting challenges in 07, but we also made some progress toward our mutual dreams.  I am happy to say that the ocassional hard times seem to draw us closer together and we obviously love each other.  Looking ahead, I want ‘08 to be the year we spend more time together, more time with our family.  I see a few trips to Maine to visit my awesome parents and kid brothers.  Maybe a trip out west to see my great big bro and the millions of stars over Sedona, Arizona.  I also see my teenage sons and I sitting quietly in our kayaks on a calm Lake Geneva, early in the morning sometime this Spring.  Hopefully, Viktoria, Sergei and Leeza go home to Russia this year for a much needed reunion.  Soccer games, violin recitals… a new web-site and service around international introductions – whew… gonna be alot less sleep but what the heck.

    What are your goals for next year?  This is the prime time for dream sculpting, is it not?  Millions of Americans are resolving to get more exercise, lose weight, save money.  The promise of a new year and new beginnings is looming a mere 10 days away… Regardless of how you will be spending THESE holidays – let’s put some thought into how you could be spending the NEXT holiday season in 2008. 

      Imagine cutting that Christmas tree down with your new foreign fiancee or wife…  bet she’s never done that before or at least not for years.  Think of the smell of spruce or white pine drifting everywhere in the house.  Maybe you’ll go out driving in search of homes covered in Christmas lights.  You might sing Silent Night on Christmas Eve in a candle-lit church service.  You might cook your fist Christmas dinner together.  How do you shop for Christmas presents for someone you are still (as all newlyweds are) gettng to know? Maybe next year there will be a child experiencing American Christmas for the fist time.  (Russians and Ukrainians celebrate the Orthodox Christma on January 7.  December 25th is just another day in their world.  New Years Eve is when presents are given and three weeks of eating, partying and renewing friendships are commenced.)  Wouldn’t it be nice to have people coming to your house next year for dinner and to meet your new wife and family? 

         Well, if you’ve found this site you have probably put some preliminary thought into the foreign bride search.  You’ve got at least an idea of what steps are involved in making the kind of scenario above a reality.  If you are like most guys who consder the foreign bride experience you’ll research this thing to death before finally deciding to get on the plane and go meet some of these spectacular women, only to regret having waited so long!

      So… why not make 2008 THE year you find HER?  This can definitely be done in a year and if not now… when? How do we go about setting a plan for this pursuit of love to complete itself in the next 12 monts?  Think of what you want to accomplish, and what you will need to do to get it done.  Write it down to make sure you don’t forget anything.  Tell yourself you’ll do whatever it takes.  Work a second job.  I did. It wasn’t always fun but I got what I wanted in the end – enough money to complete the process and bring my Viktoria home.  Get in the health club.  No you don’t have to look like Brad Pitt to win the heart of a lovely foreign lady – but it certainly won’t hurt your chances either.  By the way, you’ll feel more confident which will come in handy when you meet some of the loveliest women you’ve ever seen.  Get informed.  Invest some time in learning more about the experience.  Know as much as you can about these women and their true reasons for looking for love abroad.  You absolutely can’t get too much information on this topic.  BTW – buy Foreign Bride 101, read it and use the information to help you find that short path. Talk to people wo have succeeded in their search. Ask them why they succeeded and why they think others do not.  Write letters.  Lonely foreign women love to receive letters – but many get few or none, or receive letters from men who are not serious.  Writing letters is a way of moving yourself forward.  In fact after a month of letters, your girl will be asking you how soon the two of you can meet.  As your correspondence continues she will keep coming around to it – she wants to realize the dream as well and cannot come to you.  Make a Romance Tour Deposit.  Even if you aren’t sure which tour you will eventually go on – put the deposit down and reap the benefits of membership.  (Usually correspondence services and guidebooks.) You can always decide later which city will be the backdrop for your romantic adventure. Commiting some of your hard earned money might be the best way to assure you’ll follow through later on.  Read more about Romance Tours here!

http://www.foreignbride101.com/romance_tours.html

      Do any or all of these but – DO SOMETHING DEFINITIVE!  I don’t care how much money you have or don’t have, how much you weigh, or how successful you have been with women in the past – YOU CAN DO THIS!  I have met way too many foreign women sitting alone at socials trying to get noticed.  I have interviewed soooooooooooo many foreign ladies over the years who tell me they just want a nice guy, with good old fashioned family values to spend their lives with.  Why couldn’t that be you?  OF COURSE IT COULD BE YOU?!  Don’t believe me?  Listen to the live interviews of foreign women I have recorded in the LAST 90 DAYS ALONE!  BTW, if you happen to like what you hear – please write to these ladies below – because most of them are still waiting to meet someone – and some haven’t received any letters yet.  That’s absolutely true – look at all the foreign womens profiles out there – it’s easy for any one girl to go completely unnoticed for at least awhile.  Here’s the link to the interviews… listen, and learn!  Prepare to be amazed…

http://www.foreignbride101.com/Live_Calls.html

     I am going to once again write down my goals for 2008 but this year I am going to do something a little different:  I am going to not accept failure of any kind – and just do whatever I have to do to make my goals a reality.  Christmas 2008 WILL be even better than ‘07. Join me, my friend… I have seen alot in my 6 years in the foreign bride biz… there are lovely, lonely women hoping 2008 will bring them a gift from the cosmic lottery – a husband, family and true love.  Time for YOU to get introduced.